This thought crossed my mind while thinking of my friends.As like everyone i do have friends,some are very close and some are just reaching there.Recently i have started sharing a very different kind of relation with them.I m no more convinced by their thoughts and vision about different aspects of life and hence often run into arguments.That offcourse cause a timely bitterness in our relationships but in due time it gets faded away.The good part of it is now I m able to freely express my views and feelings without having to bother if I m hurting anyone.Is it correct !Now it depends upon how one takes it.Arguments with your close ones,when happen in a controlled fashion can give a better prospect to any subject or matter of discussion.It also mean that we get various angles to view before reaching any decision and confirms that we are not unianimous.On the contrary,egoish and uncontrolled arguments can trully pit holes in a good relation.As friends are aware of our personal and internal fronts,on getting maniac on a heated discussion can bring heartburn.Thats I m really afraid off.Freedom and self dependence is guaranteed on better and non selfish arguments.Its also helps us to grow personally and think in a diverse and flat world.So we can also have friends which may dislike some or all(nah) of our aspects !
Good for us !
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